24THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER

Assalamualaikum wbt princessia... Hari ni, terasa ada sesuatu yg luar biasa..tak tahu nape...Harap2nya sesuatu yang baik... Perkongsian buat semua..... 1. Your presence is a present to the world. 2. You're unique and one of a kind.. 3. Your life can be what you want it to be. 4. Take the days just one at a time. 5. Count your blessings, not your troubles. 6. You'll make it through whatever comes along. 7. Within you are so many answers. 8. Understand, have courage, be strong. 9. Don't put limits on yourself. 10. So many dreams are waiting to be realized. 11. Decisions are too important to leave to chance. 12. Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize. 13. Nothing wastes more energy than worrying. 14. The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets. 15. Don't take things too seriously. 16. Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets. 17. Remember that a little love goes a long way. 18. Remember that a lot . . . goes forever. 19. Remember that friendship is a wise investment. 20. Life's treasures are people . . . together. 21. Realize that it's never too late. 22. Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way. 23. Have health and hope and happiness. 24. Take the time to wish upon a star And don't ever forget . . . For even a day . . . How very special you are. Have a nice day to everyone!!! Hey dear...you're getting bigger..we're waiting for you... Hope everything will be fine..

CONGRATULATION CIK CAH!!!!

Assalamualaikum wbt Princessia,

TAHNIAH! TAHNIAH! TAHNIAH!
Buat makcik tersayang... Noor Aishah Mohamad...
Biar usia ditelan waktu..
biar kudrat menghambat belikat..
biar sulit mengekang jasad
Itulah kekuatan dalam menempuh kehidupan...

Di usia 40an, masih belum terlambat utk segulung diploma
Mudah2an Mac akan dtg dapat pula Ijazah..InsyaAllh..
Semoga kejayaanmu hari ini menjadi inspirasi buat kami...
Generasi seterusnya Tok Mat Clan... =)

Work????

Assalamualaikum wbt Princessia,

Minggu ni amat menekan umi sebenarnya. Beban kerja pejabat membuat fikiran kurg memikirkan hal lain selainnya. Takut juga kalu due awal tapi byk hutg dgn office, jadi seboleh mungkin umi nak selesaikan. Tapi, nampaknya, hasrat tu tak tercapai.. 2 hari bengkel (isnin & Selasa), 1 hari taklimat (rabu) dan hari ini pun separuh hari taklimat, tu pun umi curi keluar sbb nak gi check up n bawa Ain chek up sekali... (enuf, i have to think 'bout my family too... prinsip umi tetp mcm dulu...wat ever it is..family come first..) then from 2.30 pm till 5 pm meeting lg. Semalam pun umi bersolat sorg diri di fakulti lagi... hai..dh kali ke2 ni.. (so, sapa kata kerja kerajaan lebih relax n santai??? for me..its very much stress then private actually... ) personally, bidang kerja umi seorg skrg adalah utk 3 org bg tmpt kerja umi dulu.. (so imagine la kesibukannya).. tekanan kerja adalah sesuatu yg perlu ditangani dgn baik..kalau tak nnti dibawa ke rumah...sudahnya family yg jd mangsa... Mudah2an dijauhkan..ameen.. Setiap kali umi balik rumah lambat, umi seboleh mungkin memohon maaf pd kedua2 puteri umi n pd ayah (kalau ada.. =)) keran tlh mencuri masa keluarga... Harapan umi moga dihalalkan masa yg umi tlh curi itu.. dn masa sedikit yg ada, kita maksimakan dgn aktiviti yg menyenangkan hati semua ahlinya... hari ini umi terharu mungkin dh beberapa kali keadaan mcm ni tjadi.. kerana pd umi tiada lain..anak2 umi sahaja harta pinjaman yg Allah amanahkan... So,bila jd kekurangan mcm ni, pd Allah jua umi mohon kekuatan... agar keluarga umi jua mempunyai kefahaman...
Tulisan yang umi dpt di bawah adalah kiriman seorang sahabiah... utk ingatan bersama juga.. mungkin krn dek tulisan itu juga yg mbuatkan umi semakin terasa sayu. Banyak kebenarannya.

kita sebagai ibu bapa, dan juga sebagai anak...

Kita berjumpa dengan anak-anak ketika kita sudah letih. Kita sudah hilang seri di wajah dan jiwa malah bahasa. Anak-anak juga sudah mengantuk ketika saya sampai di pintu menanggalkan kasut. Bilakah masanya kita menumpahkan akhlak mahmudah kita kepada anak-anak?

Isteri solehah, tapi yang membesarkan anak-anak adalah pembantu rumah, guru nursery, dan entah siapa lagi. Ibu dan ayah di mana? Jawapannya mudah sahaja, SIBUK BEKERJA.

Janganlah disangka kita sudah menjadi ibu dan bapa yang baik hanya kerana makan pakai anak-anak sudah cukup. Itu hanya taraf lembu membesarkan anak-anaknya. Ibu bapa manusia ada tanggungjawab yang lebih besar dari itu. Soal makan, minum, pakaian, perlindungan, pendidikan, makanan emosi dan spiritual, semuanya mesti diharmonikan bersama bekalan yang tidak putus-putus. Apa yang paling utama adalah soal jumlah masa yang kita luangkan bersama mereka. Sudah cukupkah untuk meyakinkan mereka, bahawa kita benar-benar kasihkan mereka?

Tetapi zaman ini, zaman membesarkan anak-anak diswastakan kepada pihak lain. Kita sibuk bekerja dan kerja tidak pernah habis. Anak buat perangai mungkin semata-mata atas dorongannya untuk mencuri perhatian kita.

Ingatlah, dalam suasana kita hari ini, dosa ibu dan bapa terhadap anak-anak, lebih besar berbanding kesalahan mereka kepada kita. Insaflah wahai ibu dan bapa, jangan mudah melenting, sebelum cukup kasih diberi.

Seandainya saya memohon kotak kosong itu kekal dikosongkan, janganlah heret saya ke suasana yang menjadikan saya tersepit. Saya ada tanggungjawab kepada anak-anak, anda juga sama. Anak-anak dan isteri saya, adalah mad'u pertama saya.

Jika kita dalam perjalanan pulang dari KL ke Ipoh , kita singgah di Tapah untuk Solat dan makan. Kemudian kita meneruskan perjalanan ke Ipoh . Tetapi selepas 15 minit memandu, baru kita tersedar yang salah seorang anak kita tiada. Ketika itu kita kelam kabut mencari U-Turn dan mulut tidak henti-henti berdoa agar anak yang tertinggal di belakang, selamat dan tiada mudarat.

Ya, jika kita tercicir anak di perjalanan dunia, kita ada jalan untuk berpatah balik menyelamatkan keadaan. Tetapi berapa ramai ustaz, doktor, polis, jurutera, pegawai bank dan kita-kita semua yang ketika dalam perjalanan memanjat tangga kenaikan pangkat, kita tertinggal isteri dan anak-anak di belakang. Jika lebuh raya kita boleh berpatah balik. Tetapi jika mereka ditinggalkan dari Tarbiah dan didikan Islam, ketika kita tersedar yang mereka yang sudah jauh ketinggalan di belakang, apakah ada jalan pulang? Apakah ada satu lagi peluang? Jawapannya TIADA.

Jika ada lelaki atau wanita yang berjaya di dalam kerjaya, jangan lupa kepada pengorbanan anak-anak selama ini. Jangan lupa dosa kita terhadap mereka.

Saya hairan semasa membaca sabda Nabi SAW betapa tanda Kiamat itu adalah pada ibu yang melahirkan tuannya. Anak durhaka jadi kebiasaan. Mengapa suasana begitu boleh terjadi?

Akhirnya saya membuat kesimpulan, anak durhaka di akhir zaman, bermula dengan dosa ibu dan bapa yang sibuk bekerja.

Namun, apa pun adalah bgtg pd niat kita jua..Allah lebih mengetahui segalanya. Rasulullah banyak bersabda tentang kesungguhan bekerja... "Bekerjalah seperti kita akan hidup selamanya di dunia dan beribadahlah seolah2 kita akan mati esoknya.." Rasulullah sendiri menggalakkan agar Umat Islam hidup senang agar kita tidak meminta-minta. Namun, perlulah selaras dengan kehendak syarak.. Sabda Nabi Saw lagi, “Siapa yang bekerja keras untuk mencari nafkah keluarganya, maka ia adalah mujahid fi Sabillah”(Ahmad). Sesungguhnya, di antara perbuatan dosa, ada yang tidak bisa terhapus oleh (pahala) shalat, Sedeqah ataupun haji, namun hanya dapat ditebus dengan kesungguhan dalam mencari nafkah penghidupan(H.R.Thabrai)

Dalam hadits ini Nabi Saw ingin menunjukkan betapa tingginya kedudukan bekerja dalam Islam, sehingga hanya dengan bekerja keras (sunguh-sungguh) suatu dosa bisa dihapuskan oleh Allah. Selanjutnya dalam hadits yang lain, Nabi bersabda : Sesungguhnya Allah mewajibkan kamu berusaha/bekerja, Maka berusahalah kamu ! “Sesungguhnya Allah Swt senang melihat hambanya yang berusaha (bekerja) mencari rezeki yang halal. Mudah2an segala urusan kita DiredhaiNya dan Dipermudahkan.... Wassalam

rasanya ni tulisan umi plg pnjg...sorry la yek... lps kn apa dlm kepala...

JAUNDUCE BABY

The diagnosis of jaundice in their newborn baby is often very frightening to new parents. They immediately begin to think that something is very wrong with their infant, and may not be fully informed about the facts, which are actually very reassuring. Because jaundice is such a common condition, some medical professionals don't take the time to explain all the details, because they deal with jaundiced babies every day. However, when the baby in question is your own precious newborn, you need to get as much information as possible to put your mind at ease.

Nearly all infants are jaundiced to some degree. In the vast majority of cases, newborn jaundice is a normal process, which many researchers feel may even serve protective functions, such as guarding the infant from the effects of oxygen free radicals. It makes sense that something that occurs in the majority of babies so routinely may be part of nature's plan for the human infant.

Jaundice occurs when a yellow pigment called "bilirubin" accumulates in the tissue, especially the skin, where you can see it as a yellowish or orangish tint. In adults or older children, jaundice is considered a pathological condition, but this is rarely the case with newborns. The very common type of jaundice that most babies experience is called normal, or "physiologic" jaundice. Physiologic jaundice is not a disease; it is nearly always a harmless condition with no adverse after effects, as long as the bilirubin count doesn't reach dangerous levels.

Before babies are born, they need high levels of red blood cells in order to get oxygen from their mother's blood. Immediately after birth, when they begin breathing high-oxygen blood outside the womb, they no longer need their fetal hemoglobin. The red blood cells containing fetal hemoglobin now need to be broken down and eliminated from their bodies. Bilirubin is a by-product of the breakdown of these extra blood cells, and is removed from the bloodstream by the liver and excreted in the stool. It accumulates in the meconium (fetal stool-the black, tarry stuff that the baby excretes the first couple of days after birth) and if not excreted, can be re-absorbed into the baby's system. The newborn's immature liver may not be able to process and excrete the bilirubin fast enough in the first days after birth, so jaundice often develops. This is especially common in premature infants.

There are three types of jaundice: (It is important to understand the different types of jaundice, because each has different causes, consequences, and treatments.)

Normal, or physiologic jaundice,
- affecting the majority of newborns; pathologic jaundice, caused by medical conditions such as blood type incompatibilities (the most common cause),

- as well as prematurity, infection, liver damage from rubella, syphilis, or toxoplasmosis, and metabolic problems such as hypothyroidism; and late-onset, or breastmilk jaundice (probably caused by a factor in some mother's milk that seems to delay or prolong the excretion of excess bilirubin).

- If you define jaundice as bilirubin levels of greater than 10mg/dl, one study found that Japanese newborns were more than three times as likely to be jaundiced as white newborns.

- Babies who are premature or are low birth weight are more likely to become jaundiced.

- Babies who don't feed often enough during the early days, and who don't stool often, are also more likely to become jaundiced. This underscores the importance of early, frequent feedings. Colostrum (the sticky yellow fluid produced before the milk comes in) acts as a laxative. Bilirubin accumulates in the baby's stools, and if it isn't excreted, it re-circulates in his system. Frequent stooling helps lower bilirubin levels.

- Bilirubin levels will usually peak between the third and fifth days of life and are usually less than 12mg/dl. Occasionally they will go higher than 15mg/dl. Most doctors will monitor levels closely during this time, checking the baby's levels with a blood test, pricking his heel, toe, or finger. If the levels are rapidly rising, or are 20mg/dl or higher (lower levels are used with premature infants), phototherapy is often suggested.

- This is a treatment which involves exposing skin to blue range light which breaks down the bilirubin and makes it more easily excreted. Years ago, nurses found that babies who were in beds near sunny windows had lower bilirubin levels. Researchers then found that phototherapy can make bilirubin levels drop quickly. In most cases, bilirubin levels drop rapidly after phototherapy is initiated, and once the levels begin to go down, they almost always continue to decline. Usually only a day or two or therapy is needed. Most cases of physiologic jaundice will resolve without the use of phototherapy.

Here are some suggestions for preventing and/or treating normal, physiologic jaundice:

- Feed your baby early and often. Remember that colostrum acts as a laxative, and frequent stooling lowers bilirubin levels. Keep track of urine and stool output.

- Avoid water supplements. Only 2% of the bilirubin is excreted in the urine, and 98% in the stools. Colostrum and milk contain fat, which stimulates bowel movements, and water can fill your baby up so that he is less interested in nursing.

- Encourage your baby to stay awake and to feed at least every two hours. One of the things jaundice does is make your baby sleepy, especially is he is "under the lights". (See article on Waking sleepy babies).

- Supplement with your expressed milk. If your baby is sleepy at the breast, and is having fewer than three large bowel movements in 24 hours, consider expressing your milk after feedings and giving it to him (preferably not with a bottle at this stage; he may become confused by rubber nipples if he is only a few days old). Use a dropper, syringe, cup, or tube-feeding device if possible. Babies are often sleepy and lazy nursers as long as their levels are elevated, and the pump can provide extra stimulation to ensure an adequate supply.

- Expose him to indirect sunlight. Undress him down to his diaper and put him in a room that gets a lot of light. His skin is very sensitive, so never put him in direct sunlight.

- Avoid medications such as aspirin and sulfa drugs. Make sure your doctor knows which drugs you are taking, so that you can discontinue or find substitutes for drugs which might cause problems.

Pathologic, or abnormal jaundice

- is caused by medical conditions, and usually shows up at birth or within the first 24 hours after birth. The levels often rise quickly (0.5 mg/dl or more per hour).

- The baby may need immediate treatment, but breastfeeding can and should be initiated and continued. The colostrum and milk he receives will help him move his bowels, speeding up the elimination of bilirubin from his system. A sick baby needs the benefits of breastmilk even more than a healthy baby.

- In some extreme cases babies may be given exchange blood transfusions. This is the fastest way to bring down the bilirubin level, but is seldom needed these days since phototherapy is usually effective. If you are separated from your baby during his treatment, ask for information about where to obtain a hospital-grade breast pump to use while in the hospital and after you go home. A sick baby with elevated bilirubin levels will often be too sleepy and weak to nurse effectively for a while, and you may need the extra stimulation from the pump to ensure an adequate supply of breastmilk for him.

Late-onset, or breastmilk jaundice.

- This type of jaundice shows up during the second week of life, and peaks around the tenth day or later.

- It affects a very small percentage of infants (between 2% and 33%, depending on how you define "jaundiced" -- usually a level of 5-10mg/dl). The bilirubin count can remain elevated for weeks or even months, but will eventually level out at adult levels of 1mg/dl. The diagnosis is usually made in a healthy, thriving infant, and only after all the pathologic causes of jaundice have been ruled out. Often, this type of jaundice runs in families, and breastfed siblings are likely to be jaundiced as well.

- No one is sure why this type of jaundice occurs, but there seems to be something in some mother's milk that increases the reasbsorption of bilirubin, or decreases the liver processing of bilirubin. When the baby is temporarily given formula, either as a substitute for, or along with mother's milk, the levels drop quickly, rising again as the baby returns to total breastfeeding. Even though we are not sure of the cause, what is important to remember in cases of late-onset jaundice is that the baby is not harmed in any way by continued breastfeeding. There has never been a case of kernicterus associated with this type of jaundice, or any detrimental after effects. Because we know the well-documented benefits of breastfeeding, the baby should not be denied the advantages of breastfeeding, given the fact that the slightly elevated bilirubin levels will soon return to normal levels without any intervention. Once pathologic causes are ruled out, nursing should continue. Sometimes babies are taken off the breast for 24-48 hours just to make the diagnosis of breast-milk jaundice, though this is seldom necessary. If your healthcare provider wants to go this route, and the levels drop significantly, then breastfeeding should be resumed.

In most cases, jaundice is a normal, possibly even beneficial process that can be managed without interrupting breastfeeding. The treatment for physiologic jaundice is more breastfeeding rather than less, and sick babies with pathologic jaundice need breastmilk even more than healthy babies. Even in rare cases where the jaundice is caused by the breastfeeding, there is no reason to wean and every reason to continue giving your baby the best possible nourishment -- mother's milk.

(teringat masa kelahiran Nurin Safiyah... my first baby.. dugaan betul. Dahla premature, kena pula jaga baby sendiri - biasanya time tu ada org tua yg tolg kan?, kena plak kuning sampai 1 month, ummi sday sgt time tu slalu kena amik darah n thn di wad...but now, Alhamdulillah...mudah2an bakal jd anak solehah seindah namanya: Cahaya Suci...ameen)

Oh...anak2ku

Assalamualaikum wbt Princessia...

Hari ini ummi ade audit ISO... semalam for the 1st time berMaghrib seorg diri kt fakulti...

then baru balik amik anak2 n beli makanan (sorry my princess, mkn kedai jer..) After dinner, tgh kemas2 dapur, Ain dh start wat hal... mula2, dia pecahkan botol minyak zaitun yg ummi spare sbg selusuh utk baby... (sabar jer...) dpt la satu cop tangan ummi kt punggung.. (kesian juga...) tp rasanya perlu spy dia tahu tindakan dia tu salah. Then Ain ter'she she' plak kt dapur... (salah ummi jga ckap kejap. Maybe Ain dh xtahan masa tu) So ummi pun jd cleaner la mlm td... Clean up the kitchen and the bathroom as well coz minyak2 n the glasses tu dh merebak gak dlm bathroom. Its part of dugaan yg ummi lalui yesterday... Dh siap wat cleaning job, ummi prepare susu n let Ain sleep. "Ummi marah2 coz ummi syg Ain... Ain jgn wat lg ya?" I told her before she fall asleep.. Nurin tak tido lg... she help me with the cleaning job.. walaupun tak byk yg dia boleh bantu but i can see her concern was there... "ummi, Nurin tolg ummi la..nnti ummi jatuh lg..." she hold my hand while i walking... n she standing in front of the bathroom door to see me-maybe to make sure nothing bad happen... Thank you my dear... i perform my Isyak with her and then soon after that, kami semua tertido kepenatan... In my head, still got a few things to be done by tomorrow.. Wake up at 4am and prepare the things... (thanx to u also my dear hubby..even u not here, i know ur worried..)

And this morning, both princess wake up early..so its easier for me...tak payah la nk angkat2.. mlm td pun dh a few time kena cramp kaki...

Its part of our life... ups and down.. come and go... Remember Allah always with you.

ITS 13th OCTOBER 2009!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MY EVERDEAREST MUMMY!!!

Mom, I loved you yesterday, I love you tomorrow and everyday.
You were there for me my first day of school, to hold my hand and give me courage to go.
You listened to me when I needed to talk, you talked to me when I needed to listen.
You let me grow and learn from my own mistakes.
You never left my side when I was feeling down, I knew you would be there to pick me up.
I wish there was a way I could repay all the things you have done for me, but there's nothing great enough to repay the greatest mother of all.
I Love u always... my mum!!!

Ping..pong...

Assalamualaikum wbt...

The truth is that... "i really dunno what to blog" --> my sis (aida)... the same thing happened to me actually... ping..pong.. seems a lots of work to do ...sume org kejar ummi takut ummi early due..(tgk perut mcm dh jatuh jer...) n bila tiap2 hr sume org yg ummi jumpe ckap mcm tu... its influence me jgk la kan... so mmbuatkan kte jd mcm sgt byk kije nk kena siapkan...

Ape pun, kte perlu redha dan berusaha... Kita merancang tp sebaik-baik perancang pasti lah Yang Maha Esa.. Mudah2 an apa saja yg berlaku memberi kebaikan pd semua, meski ada kesulitannya namun disitu jualah kemanisan; hikmah disebalik setiap kejadian.... n kepala ummi maybe lately byk juga memikirkan bby coz pregnen dis time blh thn jgk dugaannya..sejak dr awal pregnen till now ummi kerap jga pitam n jatuh... Segalanya Ummi serahkan pd Allah swt.. Dia lbih berhak & berkuasa, Kita tak punya apa2..segalanya milikNya, kita cuma diberi pinjam utk menjalankan amanah & tanggungjawabNya..satu ketika, kita akan kembali dan segala yg kita ada juga akan ditinggalkan atau segala yg kita ada perlu dipulangkan kpdNya dan kita perlu redha, dan tahu kita hanya Hamba yang tidak punya apa2...

(pnjg juga celoteh ummi ni even tgh mental block...hikhik..)"mekda..aku cilok gmbar skali..hehehe"